THREE DAYS OFF

In our culture a new parent can get at least 6 weeks off from a job for the birth of a baby, but only 3 days off when a loved one dies. It seems that we rush the process of death. Is it because it's uncomfortable? Awkward? Untimely? Too heinious to deal with? My friend lost her husband and I made this card for her. But I know it's not enough. What else can I do? I know she won't ever "get over it"; especially in 3 days! I want to be a good friend to people during grief and sorrow. It's easy to be a friend through joy and happiness. But we're needed most through the "ugly" stuff. Here's a list that God has impressed me to do: Allow my friend to talk, cry, be angry, whatever; guard against offering "cliches" of sympathy; invite her places, do things with her; offer practical help and follow through; avoid suggestions; be patient with her process; talk about her spouse and don't be afraid to help her remember the good stuff; pray for her. Lord help my friend through her pain. Give her a hug today that will provide comfort and security. Help me be a good friend - guide me through this process and may we both grow in You.

Products Used for this Design:

Stamps: Well Wishes by Hero Arts, SU Curvy Verses
Paper: Papertrey White, SU Brilliant Blue, Pumpkin Pie
Ink: B.Black, Brilliant Blue, Pumpkin Pie, Garden Green, Spica Pens
Accessories: SU Ribbon, Dimensionals, Spica Pens, Mini Dew Drops